Reproductive rights are under attack — and women should not have to face this fight alone.
We men have to get up off the sidelines. And not because women are our mothers, our sisters, our friends — but because women are human beings, and all humans deserve to control their own bodies.
If you want to read more about the issue and how to help, check out my op-ed in GQ
An open letter to all men—
On Monday, the country watched as 25 men in the Alabama state Senate voted to make abortion a felony
in the state, without even an exception for survivors of rape or incest. Two days later, the bill was signed into law. This attack on women’s fundamental freedoms and agency is a blatant assault on constitutional and human rights.
But what happened in Alabama is not an anomaly—it is part of a decades-long, coordinated, all-out effort to erode women’s reproductive rights and freedom nationwide.
Across the country, women are leading efforts to fight back—just like they have in every single struggle for freedom in our country’s history. From Alabama state Senators Linda Coleman-Madison and Vivian Davis Figures, to Senators Nikema Williams and Jen Jordan in Georgia, to Missouri state Senators Jill Schupp and Lauren Arthur—it’s women in state legislatures who are taking a stand on behalf of their constituents against these far-right attacks.
But women should not have to face this fight alone.
Men, it’s on us to listen, to speak out, and to take action. Not because women are our mothers, sisters, wives or friends—but because women are people. And all people deserve to control their own bodies.
These far-right attacks on women’s rights must be understood as an attack on all of our rights. But we also need to understand who these types of bills were designed to control, dehumanize, and criminalize.
Women of color, low-income women, and women living in rural areas in states that have restricted and sought to criminalize abortion will be disproportionately affected. They may be unable to afford to travel to a different state—which could also mean missing work and arranging for childcare even while enduring lengthy 72-hour waiting periods—in order to get the health care they need. They can’t afford to pack up and leave—and we won’t let them weather this storm alone.
The restriction and attempted criminalization of abortion doesn’t just violate a woman’s rights while she is pregnant, they strip her of the right to plan for her and her family’s future.
For men, abortion is not something many feel the need or desire to talk about—it’s too uncomfortable. But that’s a trap—and one we need to get out of immediately. Men need to acknowledge that they benefit from abortion rights and reproductive health care, too.
I’m still learning how to be the best ally and partner I can be in this fight—but one thing I know is that I would not be writing this today if it were not for generations of women and men who spoke out and stood up for each other during times of moral crisis.
This week is a searing reminder that the progress they fought for is not guaranteed, every generation must continue the work.
To start that work, consider splitting a donation to the groups mentioned above.
This link will evenly split your contribution between Access Reproductive Care-Southeast, Clinic Vest Project, National Network Of Abortion Funds, Planned Parenthood and Yellowhammer Fund: corybooker.com/menstandup.